What It Takes To Be A Woman

........"And its a baby girl " . The feminine marathon begins here .Life starts with the learning to walk slowly ,with the love and caresses showered by her parents . The special feeling that comes when she is pampered – bliss . A ride on Papa’s back , a kiss on mama’s cheek , endless conversation with her favorite Barbie doll, days and nights spent with alex, Charlie and ruth in their small clubhouse – these might sound dumb to most of you reading this. But this is the only phase that a girl enjoys in her life. Calm before a storm.

As time exponentially increases, she grows up physically, and emotionally. And adolescence welcomes her with a wide hug and troubles welcome her with a smirk. The earlier days of adolescence are spent with her Friendster community. Sleepovers , Hang outs , picnics with classmates are a few to mention. “hey check that hunk out” “omigosh hes so cute” this is where the real game begins. makeup kits, deodrants become her paraphernalia. This is when she checks her dressing and she becomes very keen about her looks. what really makes me think is “ where the hell did this concern for beauty come from?” it wasn’t there all these years .Ofcourse you had blemishes on your face ,and you never bothered to notice and why do you fuss about having one now? its totally dumb when u say that its gonna be your full time job improving your looks. My dear parlour animals better not come out as the sun might mar your beauty.Beauty is chastity of the heart. Looks fade with time but the beauty of the soul is an exception.To my babies trying to eke a living , casting aside the sarcasms thrown on their looks , break the shell and see the sun. A girl is marked "a slut" if she has a lot of guy friends and is said to have attitude if she doesnt mingle with any.She is called a cry baby if she is fussy and sensitive. DONT GIVE A DAMN.

Love.The next phase. its something that she experiences from her inside. she expects nothing but unconditional love from her counterpart(selfish women don’t count) this is the time when she knows whom she is made for. And if she gets married to the same guy ,her life attains completion .
The other side of the coin, unfortunately have misunderstood the meaning of marriage. Tears become their weapon. They incarnate as Shopping animals. Beastly raiding of shops in the malls begin putting the credit cards of the mutilated souls(husbands am referring to) on red alert. ladies! please restrain. think for a second before youre done! Don’t be a spendthrift. Try supporting your husbands and spend with a futuristic approach!
Over to the men whose pastime is making love and moving on- to break a girl’s heart is a sin with no salvation. So don’t you dare!!

Mother-an abode of love. According to the Bible , the world was created in 6 days.But the long journey that we are still continuing started from a small dark world - A world of silence, A world of purity , A world where pollution is an alien word- A mother's womb. As every girl knows ,to be one is not very easy .My dear male chauvanists, you can realize this only when you see it from behind a girl’s retina. Hitler was such a great man . But he became unobtrusive because of his misogynistic views .Women are not child bearing machines. Today technology has advanced so much that a “child bearing machine” can be invented in a jiffy but artificiality loses to real affection.And mother is a mother no matter what. hats off to all the homemakers for its because of them the art of home making is still alive. house is something built with bricks home is something built with love. A mother is the only soul in the world with unquantifiable love. Times change , and so do people. but mothers love never does.take math for help. a constant cannot be differentiated
its integration yields us a higher degree
and it is unperturbed with respect to variables(riches, looks and a few)
I use this article to thank my mother for being there for me inspite of my craziness and a lot of negative attributes I carry .
Mothers are angels sent to earth.
They fill the space with care and peace,
and with their love they make it complete.

According to research sciences, a woman is physically weaker compared to men. It is a major setback. but women have taken chances and have broken the barriers to prove themselves. Life for a girl is not a cake walk. at the end of the day,The early years of innocence is all that we have to cherish .
"Life that we lead is a game with no clues
going through myriads of hurdles ,maltreatment and sexual abuse;
Striving to save humanity
fighting many a hostility
The world we try to alter
but we will never falter.... "
PROUD TO BE A WOMAN